that we may present everyone perfect.
As said, "When J. M. Barrie wrote Peter Pan, the story of a boy who
refused to grow up and lived in a place called 'Neverland,' he was
writing fiction to amuse children."
Today, however, apparently more and more adults are seeking to model
themselves after Peter Pan—not wanting to grow up. As also reported:
"A recent article in the New York Times chronicled the emergence of a
new cultural trend. Known variously as 'Peterpandemonium' or
'Rejuveniles' that is characterized by 'grown-ups who cultivate
juvenile tastes in products and entertainment.'"
"'Peterpandemonium' extends beyond the mall. A surprisingly large part
of the audience for children's television shows like the Teletubbies
are 'young adults.' And more people between the ages of 18 and 49
watch the Cartoon Network than watch CNN [news reports].
Certainly Hollywood and the media have popularized and glorified the
youth culture. And yet at the root of this "madness" is a growing lack
of personal responsibility. Too many of us adults play the blame-game
refusing to accept responsibility for the mistakes we make and what we
personally contribute to our failures, especially in the area of
relationships.
Then there is politics and their blame-game seeking to get votes at
pretty much any cost. If business is bad, it's the other party that's
to blame. If people are not getting the handouts they want, then
again, it's the other party's fault. It's a sad state of affairs when
the politicians who offer the most handouts get the most votes—instead
of the politicians who stand for justice, right, personal
responsibility, and the good of all the citizens and the nation as a
whole.
And if we adults don't accept personal responsibility and grow up,
what can we expect of our kids?
The reality is that I and only I am responsible for my life. True, I
was not responsible for a less than perfect upbringing, but I am
totally responsible for what I become. I may even "have been a victim
in the past, but if I remain one, I am now a willing volunteer."
Furthermore, while I am not responsible for the circumstances that are
out of my control, I am totally responsible for my attitude and for
what I do about my situation.
Blaming others for the problems I have, and expecting others to
resolve my problems for me, is a handy excuse to hang on to if I don't
want to grow up.
Grow out of excuses!
--
Rajesh Diwan
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