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[LeadersWorkshop] ~~~~~~~~~..Two.Most.Imp.Leadeship.Qualities...

[LeadersWorkshop] ~~~~~~~~~..Two.Most.Imp.Leadeship.Qualities...

 

Two.Most.Imp.Leadeship.Qualities.
 
By | June 30, 2011
 
 
The last two weeks have been among the most difficult in my life. I've watched several business leaders make bad decisions that likely will plunge their companies into decades of decline.
 
Wrestling with these personal disappointments, I've listened to my 87-year-old father's advice and reread books on leadership and psychology. As I write this blog post, my desk is covered with books, including Drucker's The Effective Executive, Bennis' On Becoming a Leader and Victor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning, all marked by dozens of post-it notes.

 
Here's what I've gathered from this reading: there are two qualities that leaders must have, be they presidents of nations, CEOs, or informal influencers of others.  There's no crime in not having these qualities, but it is an ethical lapse to not develop them, once their absence is made apparent.
 
The failure to develop and demonstrate these qualities should be a deal-killer to someone's promotion, and if you work at an organization run by leaders who lack these qualities, that should be a sign it's time to move on.
 
1. Intellectual curiosity:
 
 People associate leadership with bold action, but most bad decisions come down to one simple fact: you've made a bold decision before having all the facts.  Curiosity includes getting to the bottom of what's going on, why it happened, and what the underlying causes are.
Curiosity implies a desire to learn.  As Warren Bennis says, great leaders are "conceptualists."  They dig into big ideas and see how they apply.  Without curiosity, leaders make decisions based on politics and expediency.
Curiosity includes a love of listening.  My colleague Mark Goulston, a leadership expert and psychiatrist, wrote a book that is perfectly titled: Just Listen.  (The book is available from the American Management Association as a free ebook.)  Many of the worst leaders I know don't listen, don't like to listen, and hide in their offices talking to a small circle of people who think like they do.
Companies that lack curiosity don't see the need for change coming until it's too late.  Circuit City, Sears, and Blockbuster come to mind.
 
2. Courage to stand by values:
 
 The–say it with me–"Weiner affair" shows us what happens when people act on impulses rather than values.  Courage goes far beyond avoiding moral lapses.  It means finding a set of principles that the leader will use to make decisions, so that no one doubts where they stand.  Courage is what gives leaders the intestinal fortitude to make decisions that will draw fire from nay-sayers.
Companies that lack courage strike people as spineless or lacking a conscience.  The list includes not only Enron and WorldCom, but also Whirlpool, Kmart, and Nokia.   In all three cases the companies failed to take bold actions that could have redefined their markets.
 
Leaders lack the resolve to stop doing something unethical, or don't venture out in bold new directions.
 
Reading Warren Bennis reminded me that change has no constituents.  A courageous decision will result in critics shooting spit wads of cynicism and sarcasm.  The leader must demonstrate curiosity to fully understand the situation, and then courage to make the best decisions for everyone.  If the leader caves into criticisms prematurely, then the nay-sayers start running the place.  Vision is discarded and mediocrity is the future.
Curiosity and courage have a tension between them, and neither is an end in itself.  Too much curiosity and the leader is weak and indecisive.  Too much courage and the leader is brazen and thoughtless.
 
Of course this leaves us with two questions: how can you develop these qualities?  And what is the effect if one quality, or both, are underdeveloped in the leaders where you work?
 
Rather than point out a few steps from all these books around me, let me ask you.  How have you developed curiosity and courage?  And if leaders around you lack these qualities, what is the result-for you, others, and the organization?.
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Rajendra.Deshpande.
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[LeadersWorkshop] The Secret Door to Success [1 Attachment]

[LeadersWorkshop] The Secret Door to Success [1 Attachment]

 
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Excerps from

The Secret Door to Success

by Florence Scovel Shinn

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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~... Good Words...

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~... Good Words...

 


 Good words
 

Prayer is not conquering God's reluctance but taking hold of God's willingness




Love is the highest gift of GOD




GOD heals, and doctor takes the fee




Man is certainly stark mad; he cannot make a worm, yet he makes gods by the dozens




Every happening great and small, is a parable whereby GOD speaks to us, and the art of life is to get the message



The nearer the soul is to GOD, the less its disturbances since the point nearest the circle is subject to the least motion



GOD, often in his wisdom , sends his angels down to walk with us. We know

know them best as friends


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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw:~~~~ A Few Roadsigns On The Path of Success Thru.Spiritualism... ...

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw:~~~~ A Few Roadsigns On The Path of Success Thru.Spiritualism... ...

 


 A few roadsigns on the path of pathlessness by Mohanji
 

 

 

A Few Roadsigns on the Path of Success Thru Spiritualism.


* There are no do's or don'ts. Just live a selfless life, without resisting, judging or criticizing oneself and others.
* There are no binding expectations, including expectation for a specific result for one's word or action.
* Always operate rooted in the spine. Do not sway with fleeting emotions.
* Complete Non-Violence – in thought, word, action, food, as well as in all your other expressions.
* Respect and perform the individual karma as well as dharma (duty) towards own family and dharma towards the society, with perfect equanimity and zero expectation.
* Purity in thought, word and action. This also means perfect self-less-ness and equanimity in pleasure and pain. Serve selflessly. No discrimination at all, on any basis.
* Divinity is Simplicity. Lead a simple life full of love and benevolence. Always feed the hungry with what you have. Always protect the helpless, old and abandoned with what you have. See the spark of God in every being.
* Do not worry about what you do not have. Rejoice at what you have. Never compare yourself with another.
* Avoid anything that binds you, irrespective of whether the habit is positive or negative. If you cannot live without something, it is definitely a binding for you. This could be even a bed tea or a particular person. It could even be your Guru. It could be an alcohol addiction or even meditation.
* Live in the present. Act in the present. Keep time. Do not waste even a moment, because, time in existence is specified, measured and un-extendable. Do what ever your current tasks are – right now – never postpone or procrastinate.
* Understand all individuals as karmic beings. Everyone lives their karma. Each pattern is unique. Respect it.
* Never censor your thoughts. You are what you are. Accept yourself with all your strengths, weaknesses or "imperfections" that you think you have. In absolute sense, there are no imperfections.
* Observe. Be a witness to your own thoughts, words and actions at all times. You will stay liberated from all of it. Objective observation is liberating. Involvement is binding. Remember this always.
* Every being on earth has a definite purpose. No creation is by accident. Respect every being, animate and inanimate. Never disturb or destroy. Live and let live.
* Emotions, guilt and regrets are ropes that bind us to earth. Have nothing to do with it.
* Love is the most beautiful of all feelings. Express it unconditionally.
* Do everything with full application, sincerity and objective commitment. Never do anything absent mindedly or half-heartedly. Avoid all such actions. You will always be true to yourself and life will be regret free, ego free and fulfilling.
* In our path, Gurus are just roadsigns. Gurus are perfectly unconditional. They never bind a seeker to themselves. They never interfere in your experience or your journey. They never criticize, judge or censor. They are objective and truthful. Gurus never display their powers to attract and control. Gurus never demand anything from any seeker. Gurus lead a liberated existence and they lead the seeker to liberation as well.

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[LeadersWorkshop] The cracked Pot

[LeadersWorkshop] The cracked Pot

 

{The Cracked Pot}


A water bearer in India had two large pots, each hung on each end of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk from the stream to the master's house, the cracked pot arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water in his master's house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you."

"Why?" asked the bearer. "What are you ashamed of?"

"I have been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your master's house. Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don't get full value from your efforts," the pot said.

The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot, and in his compassion he said, "As we return to the master's house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers along the path."

Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on the side of the path, and this cheered it some. But at the end of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half its load, and so again the pot apologized to the bearer for its failure.

The bearer said to the pot, "Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of your path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back from the stream, you've watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my master's table. Without you being just the way you are, he would not have this beauty to grace his house."


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[LeadersWorkshop] Why Leaders Lose Their Way- HBR Article [1 Attachment]

[LeadersWorkshop] Why Leaders Lose Their Way- HBR Article [1 Attachment]

 
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Why Leaders Lose their Way

Executive Summary:  Dominique Strauss-Kahn is just the latest in a string of high-profile leaders making the perp walk. What went wrong, and how can we learn from it? Professor Bill George discusses how powerful people lose their moral bearings. To stay grounded executives must prepare themselves to confront enormous complexities and pressures. Key concepts include:

  • Leaders who move up have greater freedom to control their destinies, but also experience increased pressure and seduction.
  • Leaders can avoid these pitfalls by devoting themselves to personal development that cultivates their inner compass, or True North. This requires re-framing their leadership from being heroes to being servants of the people they lead.

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[LeadersWorkshop] Fwd: ~~~~~: Even Eagles Need a Push..Very..nice film.

[LeadersWorkshop] Fwd: ~~~~~: Even Eagles Need a Push..Very..nice film.

 





 Even Eagles need a push


 
Hi,

You can get most videos from Youtube. However, am not aware if there are copyright issues involved. You might get into a sticky situation if someone raises this when you use such downloaded film. One youtube link for this film is as follows - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Ob3Vpi1u_0 .
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25.years.
Trainer.Sales.&.Marketing.
Pharma,Travel.Hospitality,Aviation.

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[LeadersWorkshop] ~~~~~~~.Seven.Habits.Of.Top.sales.Persons.~~~

[LeadersWorkshop] ~~~~~~~.Seven.Habits.Of.Top.sales.Persons.~~~

 

Seven Personality Traits of

 Top Salespeople

 
If you ask an extremely successful salesperson, "What makes you different from the average sales rep?" you will most likely get a less-than-accurate answer, if any answer at all. Frankly, the person may not even know the real answer because most successful salespeople are simply doing what comes naturally.
Over the past decade, I have had the privilege of interviewing thousands of top business-to-business salespeople who sell for some of the world's leading companies. I've also administered personality tests to 1,000 of them. My goal was to measure their five main personality traits (openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and negative emotionality) to better understand the characteristics that separate them their peers.
 
The personality tests were given to high technology and business services salespeople as part of sales strategy workshops I was conducting. In addition, tests were administered at Presidents Club meetings (the incentive trip that top salespeople are awarded by their company for their outstanding performance). The responses were then categorized by percentage of annual quota attainment and classified into top performers, average performers, and below average performers categories.
 
The test results from top performers were then compared against average and below average performers. The findings indicate that key personality traits directly influence top performers' selling style and ultimately their success. Below, you will find the main key personality attributes of top salespeople and the impact of the trait on their selling style.
 
1. Modesty.
 Contrary to conventional stereotypes that successful salespeople are pushy and egotistical, 91 percent of top salespeople had medium to high scores of modesty and humility. Furthermore, the results suggest that ostentatious salespeople who are full of bravado alienate far more customers than they win over.
 
Selling Style Impact: Team Orientation.
 As opposed to establishing themselves as the focal point of the purchase decision, top salespeople position the team (presales technical engineers, consulting, and management) that will help them win the account as the centerpiece.
2. Conscientiousness.
 Eighty-five percent of top salespeople had high levels of conscientiousness, whereby they could be described as having a strong sense of duty and being responsible and reliable. These salespeople take their jobs very seriously and feel deeply responsible for the results.
 
Selling Style Impact: Account Control.
 The worst position for salespeople to be in is to have relinquished account control and to be operating at the direction of the customer, or worse yet, a competitor. Conversely, top salespeople take command of the sales cycle process in order to control their own destiny.
 
3. Achievement Orientation.
 Eighty-four percent of the top performers tested scored very high in achievement orientation. They are fixated on achieving goals and continuously measure their performance in comparison to their goals.

Selling Style Impact: Political Orientation.
 During sales cycles, top sales, performers seek to understand the politics of customer decision-making. Their goal orientation instinctively drives them to meet with key decision-makers. Therefore, they strategize about the people they are selling to and how the products they're selling fit into the organization instead of focusing on the functionality of the products themselves.
 
4. Curiosity.
 Curiosity can be described as a person's hunger for knowledge and information. Eighty-two percent of top salespeople scored extremely high curiosity levels. Top salespeople are naturally more curious than their lesser performing counterparts.
 
Selling Style Impact: Inquisitiveness.
 A high level of inquisitiveness correlates to an active presence during sales calls. An active presence drives the salesperson to ask customers difficult and uncomfortable questions in order to close gaps in information. Top salespeople want to know if they can win the business, and they want to know the truth as soon as possible.
 
5. Lack of Gregariousness.
 One of the most surprising differences between top salespeople and those ranking in the bottom one-third of performance is their level of gregariousness (preference for being with people and friendliness). Overall, top performers averaged 30 percent lower gregariousness than below average performers.
 
Selling Style Impact: Dominance.
Dominance is the ability to gain the willing obedience of customers such that the salesperson's recommendations and advice are followed. The results indicate that overly friendly salespeople are too close to their customers and have difficulty establishing dominance.
 
6. Lack of Discouragement.
 Less than 10 percent of top salespeople were classified as having high levels of discouragement and being frequently overwhelmed with sadness. Conversely, 90 percent were categorized as experiencing infrequent or only occasional sadness.
 
Selling Style Impact: Competitiveness.
In casual surveys I have conducted throughout the years, I have found that a very high percentage of top performers played organized sports in high school. There seems to be a correlation between sports and sales success as top performers are able to handle emotional disappointments, bounce back from losses, and mentally prepare themselves for the next opportunity to compete.
 
7. Lack of Self-Consciousness.
 Self-consciousness is the measurement of how easily someone is embarrassed. The byproduct of a high level of self-consciousness is bashfulness and inhibition. Less than five percent of top performers had high levels of self-consciousness.
 
Selling Style Impact: Aggressiveness.
Top salespeople are comfortable fighting for their cause and are not afraid of rankling customers in the process. They are action-oriented and unafraid to call high in their accounts or courageously cold call new prospects.

Not all salespeople are successful. Given the same sales tools, level of education, and propensity to work, why do some salespeople succeed where others fail? Is one better suited to sell the product because of his or her background? Is one more charming or just luckier? The evidence suggests that the personalities of these truly great salespeople play a critical role in determining their success.
 
 
Rajendra.Deshpande.
B.Pharm.(Nagpur).IMMM.(Bajaj).PGDIT.
Sales.Trainer.
 
 
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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~.. Online DOCTOR - TOO Informative....

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~.. Online DOCTOR - TOO Informative....

 


 
 

 

This site is very informative, which ever diseases you click-upon (I wish you don't have one),.... it gives you the video explanation !!!! 
Interactive Sites on Medical Information 

The tutorials listed below are interactive health education resources from the 
Patient Education Institute . Using animated graphics, each tutorial explains the procedure or condition in easy-to-read and  understand language. You can also listen to the tutorial. 

JUST CLICK ON YOUR AILMENT 

These tutorials require a special Flash plug-in, version 6 or above... If you do not have this in your PC, you will be prompted to obtain a free download of the software before you start the tutorial. 

Diseases and Conditions

·         Abdominal Aortic Aneurysm

·         Acne

·         AIDS

·         Allergies to Dust Mites

·         Alopecia

·         Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS)

·         Angina

·         Anthrax

·         Arrhythmias

·         Arthritis

·         Asthma

·         Atrial Fibrillation

·         Avian Influenza

·         Back Pain - How to Prevent

·         Bell's Palsy

·         Brain Cancer

·         Breast Cancer

·         Burns

·         Cataracts

·         Cerebral Palsy

·         Cold Sores (Herpes)

·         Colon Cancer

·         Congestive Heart Failure

·         COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease)

·         Crohn's Disease

·         Cystic Fibrosis

·         Depression

·         Diabetes - Eye Complications

·         Diabetes - Foot Care

·         Diabetes - Introduction

·         Diabetes - Meal Planning

·         Diverticulosis

·         Endometriosis

·         Epstein Barr (Mononucleosis)

·         Erectile Dysfunction

·         Fibromyalgia

·         Flashes and Floaters

·         Fractures and Sprains

·         Ganglion Cysts

·         Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease (GERD)

·         Glaucoma

·         Gout

·         Hearing Loss

·         Heart Attack

·         Hepatitis B

·         Hepatitis C

·         Hypertension (High Blood Pressure)

·         Hypoglycemia

·         Incisional Hernia

·         Influenza

·         Inguinal Hernia

·         Irritable Bowel Syndrome

·         Kidney Failure

·         Kidney Stones

·         Leishmaniasis

·         Leukemia

·         Low Testosterone

·         Lung Cancer

·         Lupus

·         Lyme Disease

·         Macular Degeneration

·         Malaria

·         Melanoma

·         Meningitis

·         Menopause

·         Migraine Headache

·         Mitral Valve Prolapse

·         Multiple Myeloma

·         Multiple Sclerosis

·         Myasthenia Gravis

·         Osteoarthritis

·         Osteoporosis

·         Otitis Media

·         Ovarian Cancer

·         Ovarian Cysts

·         Pancreatitis

·         Parkinson's Disease

·         Pneumonia

·         Prostate Cancer - What is it?

·         Psoriasis

·         Retinal Tear and Detachment

·         Rheumatoid Arthritis

·         Rotator Cuff Injuries

·         Sarcoidosis

·         Scabies

·         Seizures and Epilepsy

·         Sexually Transmitted Diseases

·         Shingles

·         Skin Cancer

·         Sleep Disorders

·         Smallpox

·         Spinal Cord Injury

·         Temporomandibular Joint Disorders (TMJ) 

·         Tennis Elbow

·         Tinnitus

·         Trigeminal Neuralgia

·         Tuberculosis

·         Ulcerative Colitis

·         Umbilical Hernia

·         Uterine Fibroids

·         Varicose Veins

·         Vasculitis

·         Warts

·         Tests and Diagnostic Procedures

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o    Barium Enema

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o    Colonoscopy

o    Colposcopy

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o    IVP (Intra Venous Pyelogram)

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o    Laparoscopy

o    Mammogram

o    MRI

o    Myelogram

o    Pap Smear

o    Sigmoidoscopy

o    Ultrasound

o    Surgery and Treatment Procedures

§  Chemotherapy

§  Cholecystectomy - Open Laparoscopic (Gallbladder Removal Surgery)

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§  Hysterectomy

§  LASIK

§  Pacemakers

§  TURP (Prostate Surgery)

§  Vasectomy

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