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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~~.. The Top 7 Mistakes New Employees Make

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~~.. The Top 7 Mistakes New Employees Make

 

 
Rajendra.Deshpande.
Trainer.
 The Top 7 Mistakes New Employees Make

 

 

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Have you ever wondered how some people can begin a new job and seem like they fit in immediately? What about those new employees that seem to hang themselves before they have had a chance to get their feet wet. Below are the top 7 mistakes new employees make that can make them look bad.

1. Talking about your personal life.

       
This is never a good idea. Even if other employees talk openly about their lives, unless you are asked a question, keep it to yourself. I know a woman who was honest to a fault. She was young and very social and would openly talk about her children, lack of income, car trouble etc… She was unfairly labelled a poor worker who had to many personal issues to be dedicated to her job. Although she worked hard and got along with everyone, she ended up being bullied by her manager and left the company feeling miserable.

2. Looking unorganized.

You know that employee who has a completely messy desk? They might be getting their job done, but the impression left is that they are not efficient and lack the ability to do assignments well.

       
3. Gossiping.

A new employee might feel good when other workers invite the new employee into their group. Even if this group openly gossips and you just throw out a mildly negative thought about the company or another employee, you will look like you are starting drama. Plus you don't want to be linked to the group that gossips anyway.

       
4. Not staying for a full shift.

Life can get in the way of staying for a full shift. You are ill, a child has an appointment or you have finished your work for the day might all be valid excuses. The problem is that you look like a slacker when you miss time at work. Do your best to work around issues that may come up. Find some back-up support and a plan in case something unexpected were to arise.

5. Not participating in company activities.

I am not a fan of using up my free time by going to company events. The company picnic, Christmas party or charity bowl-a-thon might not seem like a big deal to miss, but it is. Management likes to see their employees taking not only their job, but the company seriously. Plus, you get an opportunity to connect with employees that you might not get a chance to speak with on a regular day-to-day basis. Who knows how valuable that might be when you are looking to move into another position.

6. Avoid personal time while you're working.

Personal phone calls, friends or family stopping by or balancing the checkbook are not looked upon favorably by management or other employees. Save personal activities for lunch break or better yet, at home.

       
7. Decorating your desk.

It's one thing to put up a family picture or have a favorite motto at your desk. It's another thing completely to decorate your desk with funny little toys, a candy jar and several pictures. Look it's understandable that you want to feel some comfort at your desk. You spend so many hours at work that it might give you a bit of relief. When you don't have space to do your work because your desk has to many knick-knacks, it's a problem. Toys in general don't give off a good impression to management. It looks like you are more likely to goof off instead of getting your work done.

When you are beginning a new job, be extra respectful of your environment. Be that hard worker who doesn't spend company time gossiping, playing with toys or attending to personal matters. Be a team player even after work hours. These days jobs are harder to come by. Having an attitude that is professional is a sure way to make your new job a lasting job.

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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~ Nice project for Kids.!! Making a Solar Powered Lamp- Go Green

 
Rajendra.Deshpande.
Trainer.
 Making a Solar Powered Lamp- Go Green

Nette Situations
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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw:~~~~~ God's Wife - Priceless

 

 
Rajendra.Deshpande.
Trainer.
 God's Wife - Priceless
               THIS IS BEYOND OUR COMPREHENSION......

 
 


5. An eye witness account from New York
City , on a cold day in December,
some years ago: A little boy,
about 10-years-old, was standing before a shoe store on the
roadway, barefooted, peering through the window, and shivering
With cold.

A lady approached the young boy and said,
'My, but you're in such deep thought staring in that window!'

'I was asking God to give me a pair of
shoes, ?was the boy's reply.

The lady took him by the hand, went into
the store, and asked the clerk to get half a dozen pairs of socks
for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water
and a towel. He quickly brought them to her.

She took the little fellow to the back
part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed
his little feet, and dried them with the towel.

By this time, the clerk had returned with
the socks.. Placing a pair upon the boy's feet, she purchased him
a pair of shoes..

She tied up the remaining pairs of socks
and gave them to him.. She patted him on the head and said, 'No
doubt, you will be more comfortable now..'

As she turned to go, the astonished kid
caught her by the hand, and looking up into her face, with tears
in his eyes, asked her.
'Are you God's wife?'

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SEND TO ALL WHO LOVE AND CARE FOR CHILDREN.
Hope this put a smile on your face it
Sure did mine!
 



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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~~~.. Attitude and Emotions - Powerful Lesson

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~~~.. Attitude and Emotions - Powerful Lesson

 



Rajendra.Deshpande.
Trainer.
 Attitude and Emotions - Powerful Lesson

 

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Attitude and Emotions - Powerful Lesson
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When someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way we don't want it to be done and when we are not able to accept it, we become angry.
 
However, when someone is doing something or is about to do something, in a way we don't want it to be done and we are able to accept it We remain tolerant.
 
When someone has something which we don't have, or someone is able to produce the results which we are not able to produce and we are not able to accept it we become jealous.
 
When someone has something which we don't have or someone is able to produce the results which we are not able to produce and we are able to accept it we get inspired.
 
When Someone is present in our thoughts, but if not physically present and we are not able to accept it We say 'I am missing you'.
 
When someone is present in our thoughts, but not physically present and we are able to accept it We say 'I am thinking of you'.
 
Then emotional equation is quite simple.                                      
 
Something + Acceptance = Positive Emotion
Something + Non Acceptance = Negative Emotion
                                               
So, it is not 'Something' or 'someone' who is making us feel positive or negative, but it is our 'acceptance' or 'non acceptance' of something or someone, which is making us feel positive or negative.
 
It isn't the world but the quality of our response to the world (acceptance or non acceptance) that determines the quality of our emotions.
                                                           
Next time we feel disturbed with a negative emotion, instead of asking who or what is disturbing us, we will examine who or what we are resisting (not accepting) that is causing this disturbance in us.
We will replace resistance (non acceptance) with acceptance, and the negative emotion will turn into a positive one.

Emotional management begins by stopping to blame that 'something' or 'someone' and starting
to take the responsibility to respond to life with
                                                          'acceptance'.

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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw:~~~~~~..Beutiful Story..~~ "Reflection in Silver"

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw:~~~~~~..Beutiful Story..~~ "Reflection in Silver"

 

 
Rajendra.Deshpande.
Trainer.
   "Reflection in Silver"
 


Beautiful story..

One lady proposed to visit a silversmith and begged the silversmith to tell her about the process of refining silver. After he had fully described it to her, she asked, "But Sir, do you sit while the work of refining is going on?"

"Oh, yes madam," replied the silversmith; "I must sit with my eye steadily fixed on the furnace, for if the time necessary for refining be exceeded in the slightest degree, the silver will be injured."

The lady at once saw the beauty, and comfort too, of the expression, "He shall sit as a refiner and purifier of silver."

God sees it needful to put His children into a furnace; His eye is steadily intent on the work of purifying, and His wisdom and love are both engaged in the best manner for us. Our trials do not come at random, and He will not let us be tested beyond what we can endure.

Before she left, the lady asked one final question, "When do you know the process is complete?"

"Why that is quite simple," replied the silversmith. "When I can see my own image in the silver, the refining process is finished."



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[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~~~.. PNR STATUS

[LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~~~~~~.. PNR STATUS

 

 
Rajendra.Deshpande.
Trainer.
 PNR STATUS
 
 
Dear all
Please note this useful information
Best wishes
Dr LVK Moorthy
Indian Railway in collaboration with Google is now providing a 10 digit mobile number.

Just
SMS your PNR number on this mobile number and instantaneously you will get your ticket's current status along with all other journey related details.
The number is
97733-00000. NO need to prefix 0 or +91.

Best of all, you don't pay a premium charge for any of this, just the price of a standard SMS.


DON'T FORGET TO STORE THE NUMBER IN YOUR MOBILE PHONE.
--
Dr.L.V.K.Moorthy

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[LeadersWorkshop] What are Rahu and Ketu?

[LeadersWorkshop] What are Rahu and Ketu?

 

What are Rahu and Ketu?
           Rahu and Ketu arise from Indian mythology and are important in Vedic astrology.
           Rahu is the "Dragon's Head" and is associated with the North Node of the moon. Ketu is the "Dragon's Tail" and is associated with the South Node of the moon. Rahu rides a chariot of darkness drawn by eight black horses and is said to be responsible for lunar and solar eclipses.
           Rahu was the eldest of 100 brothers, born to Simhika and Viprachitthi. One day Rahu saw Lord Vishnu distributing amrit (ambrosia) to the Gods and Angels whilst denying it to Demons such as himself. Rahu decided to impersonate a God and succeeded in receiving the amrit which made him immortal.
           His pretence was discovered by Surya (the Sun) and Chandra (the Moon), who immediately beheaded Rahu. However he had already eaten the amrit and was by then immortal.
           His head continued to be known as Rahu whilst his torso became Ketu.
           Rahu and Ketu hold an eternal grudge against Surya and Chandra and Rahu takes every opportunity to devour them. This causes an eclipse, which ends when the Sun or Moon emerges from Rahu's severed neck.
What are the effects Rahu and Ketu have upon our lives?
 
            Very interesting…         
                       
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