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[LeadersWorkshop] WHOM TO BLAME ????

[LeadersWorkshop] WHOM TO BLAME ????

 

                                       WHOM TO BLAME ???


A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving

couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy 
was around two

years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine 
bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep 
it in the 

cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by 
its color 

and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in 

small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the 

hospital, where he died. The mother  was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead 
child, he 

looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS:
1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?



ANSWER:

The husband just said "I am with you Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. 

The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in 

finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken  time to keep the 

bottle away, this would not have happened.


No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she 
needed at 

that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would 
be much 

fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a 

single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, 

and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY

Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or  whom to 
blame, 

whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationships.  


Nisreen Dr. Sk. Abbas Merchant*
 
NLP Master Practitioner & Clinical Hypnotherapist
(specialising in Behaviour Modification)

+91 9869553372

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