Leaders Workshop: Re: [LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~.What is Happiness .??.

The feeling of completeness will only came depending on (1) how you satisfy yourself (2)how do you accepted in the society for any contribution you make (3)Since human wants and needs are unlimited some time it is difficult to have full completeness in every aspect of life.

From: Rajendra Deshpande <rajuixu@yahoo.com>
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Sent: Thu, September 16, 2010 4:22:55 AM
Subject: [LeadersWorkshop] Fw: ~~~~.What is Happiness .??.

Happiness and Hurdles

I happened to watch a lovely talk show on Happiness & Hurdles on television yesterday. It was quite inspirational, so I further feel inspired to share a few points.

Success means feeling good, light and beautiful. Success means being stable in all circumstances, giving positive energy to everyone we meet. Success/happiness is not contingent on anything or anyone. Worldly achievements and relations do not make us complete. We are complete the way we are.

How to get this feeling of completeness?

Start looking within.

Connect with your higher self.

Remember that-

Nothing happens to me, everything happens for me, for my growth.

Obstacles are not meant to lower our spirit or give a feeling of failure; they are meant to help us find a way out-a newer, more innovative way; they come to show us the real path.

Hurdles are meant to make us stronger, since more energy is required to overcome them:)

Thoughts of pain, failure, comparison, criticism drain out our energy; let them not creep in.

False notions with which we live throughout our lives:

When something happens against my expectations, I feel like a loser.

If I become so and so I'll be happy; if I get this, I'll be happy.

I'll be complete when------ happens.

So fallacious. The truth is that we are meant to be happy and complete irrespective of our worldly achievements, relationships etc. This does not mean that they should be ignored, they should rather be given the best.

We must remember that a tortoise is strongest when it goes within; it cannot be inflicted with any pain. Similarly, when we start looking inwards, we become strong and no external defeat kind can harm us. If we can love ourselves the way we are, everyone else will do the same.

So let's stay focussed on our own journey with a lot of positive energy and vibrance, the paths will start opening up to take us to the destination.

Do share your ideas.( Keep smiling:)

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